紳士風(fēng)度

Chivalry is not dead！ A woman notices whether a man opens the door for her， walks closer to the traffic or pulls out a chair for her when she sits. This is something that separates any man from the pack.

紳士風(fēng)度并沒有滅亡！女性會(huì)注意到是否有男性為她開門、和男性一起走路時(shí)男性是否會(huì)讓女性走在內(nèi)側(cè)、當(dāng)她想坐下時(shí)男性是否會(huì)為她拉出座椅。通過這些能看出來男士是否有紳士風(fēng)度。

表達(dá)自己的情感

A quick web search on relationship woes will reveal that being emotionally unavailable is a disease claiming the lives of many men. If you are a man who is afflicted by this disease， you would do well to seek help immediately！ Being a man means being able to share how you feel and not worry about how you‘ll be seen.

在網(wǎng)上快速搜索一下有關(guān)戀愛中困境的內(nèi)容，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)很多男人都患有情感表達(dá)障礙。如果你是一名患有情感表達(dá)障礙的男士，你要立刻尋求幫助！是男人就該能分享自己的感受而不要去擔(dān)心別人的想法。

注意細(xì)節(jié)

Women enjoy a man who pays attention to the small details and can recall them at a much later time. This will win any man huge points！ For example， let’s say your woman of interest tells an inconsequential story about lunch with a friend and in passing she mentions the name of the restaurant. Two weeks later you ask her， “How was the restaurant XYZ you went with your friend the other day？ I was thinking we should go out for dinner tonight.” A man will be instantly elevated to a level of superhero status， if at a later time， he can remember the small details and demonstrate he was really listening.

女性喜歡那些能注意細(xì)節(jié)并在稍后能回想起細(xì)節(jié)的男士。這個(gè)特點(diǎn)會(huì)為男士贏得超高分！ 舉個(gè)例子，假如你是名男士，你感興趣的那名女士講述了她和朋友吃午飯的這樣一個(gè)無關(guān)簡要的故事，在講述的過程中，她提到了那家餐館的名字。兩周后，你問她，“你覺得你那天和朋友一起去的那家XYZ餐館怎么樣呀？我在想今天晚上我們?nèi)ツ睦锍燥垺?rdquo; 如果一名男士在一段時(shí)間后，還能記起一些細(xì)節(jié)，就說明他真的是在用心傾聽，他的地位會(huì)在瞬間提升到超級(jí)英雄那個(gè)級(jí)別。

真心地贊美和出乎意料地贊美

Yes， she may look great when she is dressed up and you should definitely let her know. But， it is also important to let a woman know just how special she is to you in her day-to-day life. See her laugh， smile or dimple in her cheek and compliment her on it.

當(dāng)然，如果她打扮了一番，可能看上去很漂亮，你一定要贊美她。但是，讓她知道她每天對(duì)你而言有多特別也是相當(dāng)重要的?？粗笮?、微笑或露出酒窩，并對(duì)她加以贊美。

誠實(shí)

For any relationship to be successful there must be a sense of trust. Honesty is the glue that holds a relationship together and also an attractive feature. Even when it might not be the most pleasant news to tell a woman， it is better for a man to be open and honest than to tell a lie.

任何一段成功的關(guān)系都離不開信任感。誠實(shí)不僅能維持彼此間的關(guān)系，也相當(dāng)具有吸引力。雖然有時(shí)把實(shí)情說出會(huì)讓人不愉快，但是對(duì)男人而言，公開和誠實(shí)比說謊可要好得多。

自信

Confidence is the key to being attractive. It will grab any woman‘s attention. And confidence should not be confused with arrogance， which involves a false sense of self. But， rather being confident involves taking stock in who you are （not what you do）。

要想有吸引力，關(guān)鍵是要自信。自信會(huì)抓住女性的注意力。但是不要把自信和自大弄混，自大里夾雜著對(duì)自我的虛假認(rèn)識(shí)。自信是相信自己（而不是你所做的事情）。